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How to Embrace the Present Moment for a Stress-Free Life




A life without attachment and stress can give you the freedom to see things as they are and call them as you see them.
- Seth Godin (Linchpin)

In the words of Seth Godin from his book "Linchpin," "A life without attachment and stress can give you the freedom to see things as they are and call them as you see them." This quote is a powerful reminder of the value of living in the present moment, free from unnecessary attachments and stress.


Have you ever looked forward to an event with great anticipation, only to find that it didn't quite meet your expectations? Perhaps it was a trip, a long-awaited outing, or a planned event you had meticulously organized.


Chances are, the experience didn't match your imagination, leaving you feeling empty and disappointed. Why does this happen? Often, we become overly attached to a specific outcome, setting unrealistic expectations that can never be met.


Attachment, whether to an event, an idea, or an outcome, often brings stress, anxiety, and a set of rigid expectations. Your mind becomes a whirlwind of questions and doubts:


  • Did I prepare everything perfectly?

  • Will we encounter traffic?

  • Did I leave clear instructions for the babysitter?

  • Is everything in order at home?


The constant mental chatter becomes a distraction, preventing you from thoroughly enjoying the moment.


Now, let's shift our focus to a different scenario. Think of a time, not too long ago, when a spontaneous gathering with friends occurred. They called you, and you invited them over for dinner without much preparation or notice. Can you recall how much fun you had? Laughter, great conversations, and delicious food characterized the evening. What made it special?


There was no room for anxiety, stress, or high expectations. You were relaxed, living in the moment.


Sure, the house might have been messy, and you may not have had a fully stocked kitchen, but here's the key: You didn't care. You embraced the gift of spontaneity and cherished the presence of your friends. There was no time to worry; you simply went with the flow.


Now, picture the same friends calling you a month before scheduling a dinner. Suddenly, the dynamics change. Anxiety and stress creep in, and the enjoyment you experience during the spontaneous gathering becomes elusive.


Does this scenario sound familiar? While it may not always happen, it's essential to recognize that it occurs far too often. By allowing anxiety, stress, and rigid expectations to take hold, we inadvertently rob ourselves of the simple joy of living in the moment.


So, here's the takeaway:


Don't let anxiety, stress, worry, or unrealistic expectations obstruct your ability to savour the present moment. Embrace the gift of being in the now, free from the burdens of attachment. As you let go of preconceived notions and open yourself to the beauty of spontaneity, you'll find that life becomes more enjoyable and stress-free.


In conclusion, remember Seth Godin's wisdom and strive to live in the now. In these moments of presence, we truly experience the richness of life, unburdened by the weight of attachment and stress.



Bernard Kuhn

Sales Strategist | Solopreneur and SMB Catalyst | Fractional Sales Leadership


Honest and informed sales advice that speaks to your gut, aligns with your principles, and reflects what I stand for.

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